Week 2: Creating Connection Through Communication (10.12.2026)

Podcast: Andy Stanley Leadership Podcast

Episode: “The Words That Make or Break Your Leadership”

Description: Andy unpacks three dynamics that determine how leaders’ words are received - regardless of their intent.

Discussion Questions:

  • Which connection principle stood out most?
  • How does tone influence relational leadership?
  • When have you seen communication build trust?
  • What communication habit do you need to work on?
  • How will you apply one insight this week?

Required Reading:

How to Win Friends and Influence People
Part Two: Six Ways to Make People Like You

Discussion Questions:

  • Which of the six principles feels most natural to you? Which feels least natural?
  • Why does genuine interest in others matter especially in pastoral ministry?
  • What are practical ways to communicate welcome before, during, and after a conversation?
  • How does remembering names communicate dignity and care? What systems could help you do this better?
  • When does listening become an act of love?
  • Do your conversations tend to center on your own experiences, ideas, and needs? What might it look like to shift the focus?
  • How can a leader be approachable without becoming performative or people-pleasing?
  • Who in your ministry context may be easy to overlook? How could you move toward them this week?